Question for girls with really thick long hair ?

My hair is pretty thick, but I chopped it to my shoulders a while ago :'( Haha, I liked it, but I miss long hair. If the stylists are talking to you that way, I suggest going to a different salon; that's rude and unprofessional. I remember once when I was getting a haircut (when I had long hair and I was thicker since I didn't have layers yet and my hair is also curly) the lady was trying to brush my hair but since it's curly, there were tangles, so she kept pulling my hair and got pissed at me...for my hair having tangles... Needless to say, I never went back to her again :) As for taming your curls, make sure you use a good conditioner. Things like argan oil and coconut are supposedly good for your hair, so look for stuff infused with that. Also try a leave in treatment (leave in your hair for like 15 minutes, more or less) once a week specifically for curly hair. I use one by pantene and it made my hair so soft! It comes with 5 mini bottles that have enough for one use each. And also look for an anti-frizz serum. If you're willing to spend a little more, the keratin treatment (not the brazilian one that's super expensive with harsh chemicals) did wonders for my hair. Less frizzy and a lot easier to blow dry and straighten. It's a little expensive, but not nearly as expensive as the brazilian, doesn't damage your hair, and is definitely worth it. Good luck! :D